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Life and are not about following someone else’s formula. When we let go of rigid rules and the infinite possibilities, we open to deeper authenticity, , and fulfillment.


Visual Intervention Received : 2017 – Appalachian Trail, North Carolina.


Finding Freedom Beyond “This is How It’s Done”

As I reflect on my journey through life, one observation stands out: as we grow older, there’s a tendency to rely increasingly on others to guide us, to tell us how to live, how to create, and even how to think. We seek out so-called “experts” to give us the answers, to provide us with a roadmap for our lives. There’s a certain comfort in following someone else’s formula, especially when venturing into unknown territories—like trying out a new recipe for the first time. But this comfort comes at a cost.

When we always look outside of ourselves for guidance, we risk closing down our own creative potential. We begin to operate within the confines of someone else’s rules, someone else’s way of seeing the world. How many times have we heard the phrase, “This is how it’s done”? It’s as if there’s only one correct way to approach any task, any problem, any art form. And while this approach might work well in the world of science or chemistry, where the laws of demand consistency and precision, it’s a different story when it comes to art—and, I would argue, life itself.

Art, at its core, is about exploration, about venturing into the unknown and discovering new ways of seeing, feeling, and expressing. When we approach art with a rigid mindset, when we believe there’s only one right way to create, we rob ourselves of the chance to explore the infinite possibilities that exist. What if, instead of saying, “This is how it’s done,” we said, “This is one of the infinite ways it could be done”? What if we applied this philosophy to life?

Imagine the that comes with this shift in perspective. Life, like art, isn’t meant to be lived according to a single script handed down by someone else. It’s meant to be experienced in all its messy, unpredictable, and beautiful complexity. When we allow ourselves to break free from the constraints of “how it’s done,” we open the door to a richer, more authentic existence. We begin to see that there are countless ways to live, countless paths to take, and countless ways to be.

Visual Intervention

The photograph above serves as a powerful metaphor for this very idea. In the , we see a small snail making its way up a piece of bark, moving toward a bright orange mushroom. At first glance, this might seem like a simple, even mundane scene from nature. But if we look deeper, we find layers of meaning that speak directly to the concepts we’ve been exploring.

The snail, with its slow and steady pace, symbolizes the journey each of us takes through life. It’s a journey that requires patience, resilience, and a willingness to forge ahead even when the is uncertain. The snail doesn’t rush or take shortcuts; it moves forward at its own pace, fully present in each moment. This is a reminder that our own journey doesn’t need to follow a predetermined path set by others. We can, like the snail, find our own way, even if it’s slow and unconventional.

The mushroom, vibrant and colorful, represents the unexpected beauty that we encounter when we’re willing to explore the unknown. It’s a symbol of the infinite possibilities that life has to offer, if only we’re open to seeing them. Just as the snail approaches the mushroom with curiosity and wonder, we too can approach life with a sense of openness, ready to discover new perspectives, new ways of being, and new opportunities for .

Together, the snail and the mushroom illustrate a simple yet profound truth: life is not about following someone else’s formula. It’s about finding our own way, embracing the journey, and discovering the beauty that lies in the infinite possibilities before us.

Embracing the Infinite

So, what happens when we apply this concept to life? When we let go of the need to always do things the “right” way, we give ourselves permission to explore, to experiment, and to create in ways that are uniquely our own. We stop seeking validation from outside sources and start trusting our own instincts, our own inner calling. This doesn’t mean we reject all guidance or expertise—there’s still value in learning from others—but it does mean we don’t let those external voices drown out our own.

In my own life, I’ve found that the moments of greatest growth and fulfillment have come when I’ve stepped outside the conventional rules and followed my own path. Whether it’s in my creative endeavors, my relationships, or my spiritual journey, the most meaningful experiences have been those where I’ve allowed myself to explore the infinite possibilities rather than sticking to a rigid formula.

It’s not always easy. There’s a certain level of discomfort that comes with breaking away from the norm, with choosing to see things differently. But in that discomfort, there’s also great potential for transformation. When we embrace the infinite possibilities that life has to offer, we open ourselves up to new experiences, new insights, and a deeper connection to ourselves and the world around us.

So, the next time you find yourself being told, “This is how it’s done,” I invite you to pause and consider: Is this the only way? Or is there another path, one that might lead you to a place of greater authenticity, creativity, and fulfillment? Remember, life is not a one-size-fits-all proposition. It’s an open canvas, waiting for you to create something truly unique and beautiful. The possibilities are infinite—what will you create?



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