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It’s really okay to let go of religion. What truly matters is not the specific doctrines we cling to, but the way we treat one another. Letting go of rigid beliefs allowed me to embrace a more authentic way of being and connect with others on a deeper, more genuine level.


Visual Intervention Received : 2017, Near Big Sur California.

It Is Really Okay to Let Go of Religion

In the midst of life’s journey, I have come to a place of profound realization. The winding road received in the photograph mirrors the path I’ve traveled, leading me to a conclusion that might seem radical to some: It’s really okay to let go of religion.

At this point in my life, I’ve embraced the that religious beliefs, regardless of their , often fall short of absolute . What truly matters is not the specific doctrines we cling to, but the way we treat one another.

Consider this: every person we encounter, whether in fleeting moments on the street or in more meaningful interactions, shares the same fate of mortality. Doesn’t it make sense, then, to approach each other with kindness and compassion? In a where everyone is ultimately on the same path to an unknown destination, treating each other with decency becomes a fundamental human duty.

Those who hold tightly to religious doctrines often invoke the concept of faith. “You just have to have faith,” they say. However, the way faith is commonly presented can be problematic. It often demands blind adherence to a set of beliefs and rules, dictating what is considered good or bad, right or wrong. This version of faith can stifle critical thinking and discourage individuals from seeking their own truths based on personal reasoning and life experiences.

I prefer to view faith in a different . To me, faith is akin to learning to swim. Imagine standing at the edge of a pool, hesitant to let go. Real faith is about releasing your grip on the edge and trusting in your own abilities to navigate the waters. It is not shrouded in mystery or magic; rather, it is grounded in self-trust and confidence.

In other words, don’t accept something just because it’s been handed to you. True faith must originate from within, born out of personal insight and conviction.

Reflecting on my journey, I’ve observed many individuals, particularly within the Christian tradition (as that’s what I am most familiar with), experiencing deep inner turmoil. Imagine being told to believe in something with every fiber of your being, under the threat of eternal damnation if you don’t. If you are honest with yourself, and you realize deep down that you don’t truly believe it, a painful duality arises.

This internal conflict can cause immense discomfort. It’s like carrying a heavy weight, knowing that part of you is not in alignment with what you profess to believe. The question then becomes: What are you going to do about it?

For me, the answer was to let go. Letting go of rigid religious beliefs did not mean abandoning spirituality or morality. Instead, it allowed me to embrace a more authentic way of being. It freed me to explore my own truths and to trust in my ability to navigate life’s without the crutch of imposed doctrines.

Letting go has brought me a sense of peace and clarity. It has allowed me to connect with others on a deeper, more genuine level, seeing them not through the lens of religious judgment but through the eyes of compassion and understanding.

In the end, it’s about being kind to one another, embracing our shared humanity, and finding faith in . It’s about walking our paths with an open heart, trusting that we can find our way, not because we were told how, but because we have the courage to let go and discover it for ourselves.



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